Are You Empowering The Person In The Mirror, Or Trolling Him Or Her?
Build yourself up any chance you get without being proud or boastful
Every day is an opportunity for success, so they say, but is it really? There are days when we want the best, hope for the best, but the best is nowhere in sight. It cannot be found and seems to run from us like some quick prey in the wild that is impossible to catch.
How is it that our confidence and hope seem to wither away? The person we are is a smart, confident, intelligent, and capable individual. Yet the achievement of success seems so distant and impossible.
The problem could be that some of us are trolling ourselves in some way and not doing the sort of empowerment that we should do. It is a hard truth, I know, but it is probably true nonetheless.
What is trolling? It is when someone seems to pick a fight online or cause trouble about some off-topic issue. You are likely to hear about the issue of trolling when you read the news or go to your favorite website.
So how could you troll yourself in the mirror?
Here are some possibilities:
- Letting your mind wander into negative thoughts about your appearance
- Self doubts creep up in your head
- You think more about your past mistakes than you should
- Despair starts to grow
- Your confidence seems to go down
Your job is to empower yourself as much as possible, far more than the others in your household or family. Remind yourself of your skills, talents, and abilities. Don’t forget to do your job.
Everyone has thoughts and they have a mind’s eye picture of themselves. It is easy to let your memory go to your bad times, bad experiences, and bad encounters. Part of your job is to ponder your good skills, good social interactions, and good relationships. Focus on the good, not the bad.
How do you empower yourself and not troll yourself while looking in the mirror?
- Smile and stand confidently
- Dress for success
- Think of the friends and family who cheer for you and want you to succeed
You are strong, confident, and beautiful. You have success in your future. Good fortune is coming your way. Don’t let your inner troll convince you otherwise.