When’s The Last Time You Visited “The US"?

I don’t mean the United States of America

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Have you visited “The US" lately and had a good time? I’m not talking about America, no not at all.

One of the most important relationships you have is with your partner, your lover, your spouse, or your significant other. I call this “The US" because of how important is to the happiness of the two of you, the “us" that you are as a couple.

It is very important to visit, really visit, with your significant other and to have a good time together. It gives you strength and power.

Imagine thinking about your next visit with your lover, when you dedicate special time for only the two of you. Is it going to be a great time that you both enjoy? I hope so!

Here are some suggestions for you when the two of you visit “The US":

  • Say nice things
  • Give thanks for little things
  • Offer a massage
  • Caress
  • Hold each other
  • Kiss softly

The quiet times and special times you have with your love need to be wonderful so make sure you:

  • Turn off phones
  • Listen a lot
  • Don’t talk about chores
  • Turn off video and TV
  • Give your full attention
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What if you don’t know if your male partner would be interested in certain things during the evening when your door is locked and it is your special time together?

Well, I speak for myself when I say I am definitely always interested in the following things, and my answer always will be yes:

  • Candlelight
  • Massages (give or receive)
  • Physical intimacy (you know)
  • Other types of physical intimacy if regular physical intimacy is not possible
  • Kissing
  • Hugging

Yes, you can have a wonderful time visiting “The US" without doing anything on the list above. It is really important that you have small stress-free conversations.

But if you’re in the mood for some or all of the listed items, you’re likely to find a willing participant.

I hope you can visit “The US" soon and that have a wonderful time. Make sure you have lots of good times together because it gives each of you a break from the rest of life.

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